There is a white wall I look at every day where I should write this in big letters.   We are all doing our best. We’ve developed certain values and we imagine a world where these are prioritised. Not seldom we identify where things are going pear-shaped, when the freedom of choice, of speech, of […]

Sounds basic, doesn’t it? But I still remember the time when several of my relationships would not be based on “freedom to be” but rather “expectations to do”. Even if these friendships started with the excitement of the encounter, they soon would develop in dynamics of Co-dependency, of unmet needs and consequently disappointment. If it […]